Grandpa Glen leaned back on the park bench as he put his arm
around Kevin’s shoulder.
“Let me tell you something, Kevin,” Grandpa Glen
sighed. “Too many people have given up
on the American Dream. But my brothers
and went to war, fighting long and hard for that American Dream. Today, just as ever, is full of abundance and
opportunity. It never actually left; people
just started ignoring it.”
Kevin looked up quizzically.
“See here Kevin, there are two main camps of people. There is a very fine line between the two,
but the differences are huge! It’s
interesting how the little things set the big things so far apart. It all boils down to one’s thinking. Simple as that!”
“But doesn’t everyone think, Grandpa?”
“Ah, yes. But it’s
what everyone thinks about that’s the
difference.” Grandpa Glen had a big grin
on his face now as he was beginning to warm up.
“We all start with pretty limited thinking and it can be hard work to
get better at it. Henry Ford simply
pointed out why so few seem to think well, he said it is some of the hardest
work there is. Which usually makes it
the best paid as well. So it’s no wonder
that the man with an hourly wage, who is told what to think, is paid the least.
He’s dependent on the thinking of his boss, and that man’s boss, and
then that man’s boss until you reach the owner and impetus of the whole human
machine. The employee is a dependent and
is told to think hourly for his just compensation.
“And then the ones who don’t like to be dependent come along
and set off for their independence.
They’re confident, head-strong, and cocky. They think one task at a time. Their motto is something like, ‘If you want a
job done right then do it yourself.’”
“Kinda like Jimmy?” Kevin asked.
“Kind of like Jimmy, but your older brother has the
potential in him for taking it to the next level. You see, being independent is well and good,
but the true power, fulfillment, and world-changing impact come with
interdependence. When you have friends who
share in the fight with you. If nothing
else, this was the biggest lesson I learned in the military. Where one of us couldn’t withstand, a
brother-in-arms was always there to carry some of the load. There’s almost nothing you can’t do with a
tight-knit band of brothers or sisters wrestling for excellent results!”
“Is that why you always get sad when you talk about your
friends and business partners?”
“They were like family to me. You see, we rarely spent our time. Every second
of it was an investment. With those men, and their wives, we learned
to think for the long haul, to curb our wants; and ultimately leveraged the
eighth wonder of the world, compound interest, in every aspect of our lives.”
“What’s car-pond interest?”
Grandpa Glen chuckled softly, “No. Com-pound interest. Sit down with your mother sometime and work
out this little exercise. Start day one
with a single penny, then for each day double it and see where you end up after
a month.” He prompted further, “Your
first day is a single penny, your next day is two, the third is four, the
fourth day you would have eight pennies, and so on. Some people, if presented the option, often
say they’d prefer to receive a million dollars on day one instead of a meager
penny that doubles every day for a month.
Work out the math and see which one you’d like.”
“Oh, ok! I like
working out problems and finding the solutions with mom and dad. Dad says he used to do that with you when he
started growing tall like I am. But, why
were you talking about solutions last night with mom and dad?”
“That’s because we have an interdependent relationship. And he understands I’ve had success,
failures, experiences, and more time on this earth than him. Just like how I ask you how to use this crazy
new phone of mine. I know if I get help
from you it’ll be much faster and considerably less painful for me than to try
and figure it all out on my own!”
“Haha, yeah, that’s the truth, Grandpa! I sure enjoy helping you out though, even
though I think it’s silly sometimes how bad you are at getting the hang of
it.”
“Yes, my boy! Isn’t
that the truth.”
They both stretched out over the park bench, staring off
into the woods across the fields, drifting deep into thought.
“I’ve been trying to make sense of this interdependent thing
you, my dad, and mom keep talking about, but how do relationships make you a
living? I mean, I have some pretty good
friends, but I never get paid for having them.”
Grandpa Glen smiled broadly at the brilliance of budding
youth. “That’s a bunch of old guy
business talk that’s probably no fun to such a free-spirited youth like
yourself!”
“No, Grandpa, really.
I know someday I’ll have to make a living, lead some people, and have
kids just as smart as me, because I have a mission I’m going to detect and get
excited about and all that stuff. Just
like you and mom and dad.”
“Well! Put like that
I suppose it does call for an opinion on the matter, now doesn’t it? Let’s see.
Simply put, it’s the interdependent friendships you invest in over your
lifetime that are then applied to the mission you detect. See, it’s not the business you pick as much
as it is the mission you detect and then
the business you build with your interdependent friends around your joint
missions. Your living comes from your
business, which is built with your friends, based around your missions. Does that make sense? You’re not actually paid for simply having friends, but you are paid for the
impact your community will have on the world.”
Grandpa Glen looked over at Kevin, pondering.
“You’re getting that look Grandpa, I think I’m ready for it
now. Mom says I don’t need to study as
much as Jimmy does yet, but I think I’m ready for what you’ve got!”
Grandpa Glen raised his eyebrows, a little taken back, “And
what exactly are you ready for, Kevin?”
“Your mentoring assignment!
Whenever you get that soul-searching look there’s static in the air with
excitement then you give some great and challenging assignment to somebody. Well, I think I’m ready!”
Grandpa laughed.
“Maybe I should just give it to your mom and she can pass it
on when she thinks you’re ready for it.
Because it is great and
challenging, and when you are ready for it I think it will be very inspiring,
give you a lot of direction, answer a bunch of your questions, as well as help
you ask the right questions.”
“Come on Grandpa! I
really do think I’m ready. And if it’s
too hard for me, then I’ll sit down and talk it over with Mom and Dad.”
“Ok, I like that proposition. So, the assignment…yes…what were we talking
about?”
“Grandpa” Kevin smiled, beaming with excitement for his
first assignment from Grandpa Glen. “How
I’m going to make a living with my friends by living our missions.”
“Ah, yes! It’s simple
really. We’ll start by reading a few key
books.”
“Come on! Let’s head
home and tell Mom and Dad about it! I
hope we have all the books so I can get started on them!”
Kevin excitedly led him home at a brisk walk.
Grandpa Glen’s recommended reading list:
1) Thomas Jefferson
Education for Teens by Oliver DeMille and Shanon Brooks
2) Financial Fitness for Teens
by LIFE Leadership
3) The Cashflow
Quadrant by Robert Kiyosaki
Ian Cox